---Advises women who believe in gender equality to "leave marriage alone"
Prominent Nigerian activist Aisha Yesufu has ignited widespread debate on social media following a viral post in which she questioned the compatibility of gender equality with traditional marital roles.
In the widely circulated message, Yesufu wrote: “Marriage is not for every woman. If you are too big to respect a man, marriage is not for you.
If you believe in gender equality, Aunty, leave marriage alone. If you are not submissive, please stay single. In marriage, a man and a woman are not the same and will never be.”
Her comments have drawn sharp reactions online, with many critics accusing her of endorsing patriarchal norms and undermining the ongoing struggle for gender equality.
Detractors argue that her remarks stand in stark contrast to her long-standing advocacy for social justice and women's empowerment.
Conversely, supporters argue that Yesufu is offering a pragmatic perspective on the realities of traditional marriages, particularly within the cultural and religious context of Nigerian society.
They view her message as a candid reflection of the compromises often required in marital relationships.
The post has since gone viral across multiple platforms, reigniting conversations around feminism, cultural values, and the evolving dynamics of marriage in contemporary Nigeria.
As of the time of reporting, Yesufu has not issued any further clarification or response to the public reaction.
